Firstly, I’ll specify that I’m not talking about first or second wave feminism, but third.
In most countries, except of course where it’s needed, feminists continue to protest their fight for superiority, while others fight for a right to live. Here are some points that I find wrong with third wave feminism logic.
- So there are free the nipple rallies, for of course the de-sexualisation of the nipple and the purpose of being equal to men. Well, first of all, it is indecent for a man to be topless in public. It is called ‘public indecency’ or ‘indecent exposure’. Unless at a beach, men and women are required to wear clothing. Secondly, the protest against bras, I only started wearing a bra as of this year because my tits actually started growing quicker than anticipated , but believe it or not ladies, no one actually cares whether or not you have a bra on. The amount of women I see on a daily basis that aren’t wearing bras (even though they should be) is astounding. Thirdly, the breast feeding issue, if you are a mother, you and that child have a right as humans to feed as you wish, and personally I don’t care, but other people have a right to request you cover up. Okay yes, your body your rules, but here’s a tip, if a man asks you to cover up because he is uncomfortable, that’s a straight give away that man could be a pervert. So unless you want an uncomfortable man bulging at your ‘feeding bags’ , I suggest covering, for your own benefit.
2. The argument about rape. There are a few points here. I will say firstly, I have been assaulted, so no, I am not here to victim blame, I’m not here to GENDER blame either. I as a woman know what it is like to be assaulted, having said that don’t think I’m on your side. HOW DARE YOU make a mockery of rape victims, women who have been physically and mentally hurt for life, by comparing these physical acts of violence to men looking at you. Stare rape? You literally have made yourself victims because someone looked at you and then claim you have PTSD something REAL rape victims and war veterans have. I was diagnosed with PTSD at 14 years old, by a legit doctor, not Tumblr. I was never ashamed of it, until feminists started taking the piss out of it. My second point is, women lie about being raped, a lot! And they know they will be believed because in a lot of areas, we already have privilege. You not only make it harder to give rape victims are real chance, for example during my time spent in court I was asked questions like “were you physically raped” I questioned this, I thought to myself, how can you not be physically raped, and behold, back to the stare rape. You’re also ruining a lot of innocent men’s lives by lying, because you got drunk and regret it. That by the way is not victim blaming, if you drank too much alcohol, and you willingly consented to the act, that is not rape. Keep in mind, the guy you’re blaming was in the EXACT same situation as you. Last point on this subject, men can be raped too, and yes by women. “To force someone to have sex when they are unwilling, using violence or threatening behaviour” that is one of the original definitions of rape, before it was all about men being the enemy. Don’t victim blame? Why blame men, who have suffered false accusations or have been assaulted themselves?
3. Women can be just as nasty and intimidating as men. A woman complained that she gets stared at in the workplace because all men are disgusting perverts, I suggested wearing more appropriate clothing to work (which was not at Hooters, so no need to be un-presentable) and all of a sudden, I’m a victim blamer and a misogynist and oh so many stupid words by the self proclaimed bitch. Men consistently get the blame for being perverted and sexual predators, umm, have you people met lesbians? They can be just as, if not more intimidating than men, you say you’re not interested in women it’s 4 hours of “I’ll change your mind”. I have never met a more persistent group of people, in my entire life. Majority of feminists, are lesbians, I know huge surprise, So why is it wrong for a man to look at you or talk to you yet you can stalk and harass and intimidate other women, problem free? If you truly want equality, follow your own rules. When a woman says no, she means no. When she says she isn’t interested, she isn’t interested. I cannot stress this enough, this goes for men, women and all the other made up genders out there.
So on that note, that was my rant for tonight, but don’t worry, I’ll be back with far more on what’s wrong with feminism.